(41 People Likes) Is it normal for me to be upset with the thought of my boyfriend purchasing a life-sized sex doll? He wants to buy a very expensive and real life looking one.
l. My boyfriend just told me he needs a 2.5k one to be happy so he can take it to restaurant bathrooms when I won’t go with him (his words). I’m questioning everything. I’m 29 and he’s 25. What to do about it? No idea. I plan to Real Doll get counseling on it. It’s interrupted massive plans in motion. Good luck to
(71 People Likes) As a feminist,what do you think about sex dolls?
âsex dollsâ?or âsex botsâ?is similar to the arguments against pornography,particularly violent or âkinkyâ?pornography. That experiencing such a thing will diminish menâs respect for real women,leading to an uptick in sexual violence and a cheapening of relationships.
In real life,thereâs been no legitimate academic research that Iâm aware of showing that pornography does anything of the kind. Now,Iâm deliberately leaving the influence on children out of this. Children are still learning and developing their ideas of human relationships,and can be influenced in ways that adults arenât nearly as susceptible to. Iâm talking about adults.
Adults donât suddenly decide that rape is OK just because they read some rape fantasies on the internet.
Adults arenât going to suddenly decide that women are worthless as human beings because they get to have sex with a doll or robot instead.
Most adult human beings want more out of their relationship with another person than sex. If that werenât the case,none of us would have friends,weâd just have sex partners. I donât think that the presence of sex dolls/robots is likely to change our desire to have real human relationships with real people. Even if some people decide that the sex they have with their robot is better than the sex they can have with a person,and so donât have sex with peopleâ?Iâm honestly not clear on who that would actually hurt. The search for sex,and sexual variety,causes just as many problems,if not more,than it solves. How many people,after all,have had the same best friend for their entire adult life,but ten or twelve or twenty different girlfriends/boyfriends/significant others/sex partners in that time?
If we arenât so hung up on sex,maybe more of the planet would get over the belief that men and women canât be friends without having sex. Itâs a silly belief that itâs more than time for us to put aside.
Weâre not going to die out as a species. There are plenty of ways to procreate that donât involve having unprotected sex with a human of the opposite sex. And theyâre getting easier and cheaper and more reliable all the time.
The situation might change if we make the shift from âsex dollsâ?and âsex robotsâ?to true androids with the capability of responding in a human way. At that point,we get into the realm of speculative science-fiction a la Blade Runner and
(84 People Likes) Can someone having an affair with a sex doll say how it feels?
ew about Real Dolls,but they were around $5000 -not within my budget. I forgot about them and I donât know if they crossed my mind since then,until I did an online search for sex dolls about nine months ago and I was shocked to discover that there are a lot of manufacturers,dolls have become very lifelike,beautiful (in my opinion),and theyâre affordable now.
So I started window shopping,just for fun,and that very quickly developed into a doll fetish (agalmatophilia). After doing a lot of research,I finally picked one out and ordered about two weeks ago. She arrived a few days ago and I was anxious to open the box,see how she looks and see how TPE (thermoplastic elastomer,a material similar to silicone that is said to feel very much like real human skin) feels after looking at these dolls online for months. I braced myself,because I was worried I would be disappointed by her appearance or how she feels. After opening the box,first I was very pleasantly surprised by how beautiful her body is; stunning detail. I looked at her face and she is extremely cute. One of the first parts I touched as I was unpacking her was a calf and I was amazed at how real it felt -just like human skin and the way the skin moves is just like human skin,muscle,and fat jiggling. WOW!
I have to say at this point that there are a few things that will shock anyone the first time they touch or handle a TPE sex doll: they are shipped with their heads removed,so you open a 5â?â?box and see a headless body. Then you discover that the body is frigid cold -shockingly cold. Then you try to lift her out of the box. Uh oh! I had read that these dolls are heavy,but I had no idea what I was in for. I read about her weight ahead of time on the website; sheâs 75 lb. So if a real woman with the same height and body shape weighs around 125 lb,then this should be a breeze,right? No! Carrying a real woman newlywed style is different; they put their arms around your neck and balance their weight -they can help you to an extent. This 5â?â?(sheâs taller than me,which is kind of cute),75 lb doll is extremely difficult to move -far more than I could ever have imagined!
Unfortunately,you canât just take your beautiful,brand new doll to the bedroom and begin the romance,you have some work to do: you need to take the lifeless,headless,cold,and heavy body to the shower and clean off the manufacturing chemicals with soap and warm water. It was so difficult getting that body to the bathroom,I almost donât know how I did it. Iâve had chronic back problems since I was in my twenties,I sprained a knee a while ago and itâs never going to fully heal,and I recently recovered from a hernia surgery.
Iâve been trying to figure out how to move her more easilyâ?Iâve been thinking about getting some roller skates for her and carefully guiding her around. Thatâs either pure genius or so stupid that Iâll make the news when she falls on me,I canât get up,I scream for help after struggling for hours,and the paramedics,police,and fire fighters all smash in my front door and rush to help me only to find me pinned on the bathroom floor under a hot,naked sex doll. Now thatâs the stuff of urban legend.
I decided the easiest way to clean the chemicals off would be to shower with the headless body,so thatâs what I did. While that was strange and disturbing,I made some wonderful discoveries about TPE: it heats up fast (especially in a warm shower),holds heat in,dries exactly like human skin (some toweling off and air drying takes care of the rest -it air dries in minutes just like our skin does),and it feels wonderful when itâs wet.
I took the body to the bedroom,I put her head on (it screws on,so her head goes around and aroundâ?exorcist style),I grabbed one of the wigs I ordered,and thatâs when she came together. She no longer looked like a corpse,now she was stunningly gorgeous. She comes with a wig,I ordered another one (long red) from the same website,and I ordered a Bettie Page style pin-up costume wig from Amazon,just because Iâm obsessed with pin-up girl art and thought it would be fun to dress her up as a retro gal with polka-dot dresses,cat eye glasses,and a flower in her hair. Iâm not disappointed with the results.
Now for the Juicy Stuff
I kissed her and wow! Her lips feel indistinguishable from human lips; kissing her is exactly like kissing a girlfriend.
Her body is very anatomically correct,surprisingly so.
Her breasts feel good,a little firm,but good. She has solid boobs,while other manufacturers offer gel-filled boobs as an option,with rave reviews.
I laid her on the bed on her back,spread her legs (which was not easy,theyâre heavy and difficult to move around,and I inserted a USB heating rod ($9) for five minutes. I put a water based lube in and it was time. Here goes my sex doll virginityâ?and wow it felt good. I just didnât know what to expect and in a lot of ways it was not all that different from having sex with a real girl. As I said earlier,TPE is very good at holding heat,so my own body heat is enough to warm her up. Itâs different than sex with a human in the obvious ways: they donât have emotions,nerves,donât feel pleasure,donât actively participate,canât have orgasms,and canât communicate with you. Itâs also different in that thereâs a little bit of a suction effect -as air getâs displaced,there ends up being a vacuum and it feels very,very,very good. Thereâs a popping air sound when pulling out that in and of itself is a turn on.
Because the extremely fast rate that sex technology is developing,I have no doubt that AI sex dolls (which already exist) will feel sensors,react,actively have sex with us,and talk dirty and tell us that they love us in the very near future. I love sex with real women and I love how much these dolls look and feel like real women,however,in my case things are a lot different: because I fetishize dolls and Iâm specifically turned on by their dollness,I enjoy the experience for what it is rather than hoping for it to be as close to a human/human sex experience as possible. Does that make sense? Doll/human is my thing,so I love every second of it,until I have to move her.
I was very happy with the experience,but here are downsides: I canât say it enough that the weight is a serious problem,even laying down -her body sank into the mattress and pillows. Girl on top positions are out of the question,no way. The clean up afterward is very involved -Itâs recommended to insert a tampon to absorb the userâs body fluid and lube before the struggle to get her to the bathroom begins and this time I kept her head on so sheâs much nicer to look at. I douched out her vagina,something that I had to learn how to do before she arrived. That wasnât as bad as I thought it was going to be,the problem once again is her weight -just trying to get her into a position thatâs conducive to flushing out her womanhood (ok,dollhood) was so challenging. Cleaning up your partner after sex is a whole chapter.
I spent a small fortune buying all the stuff I need to take care of her and I spent a lot of time researching,reading articles and watching videos to prepare. There is a lot of maintenance and expense involved,but thatâs ok,because itâs worth it to me.
Emotional Effects
Besides t gia darling love doll e sexual experiences,she offers companionship. Iâve heard and read story after story about guys falling in love with their dolls and itâs been said that falling in love with a sex doll is easier than you think. Well,a lot of sex dolls have eyes that look very,very real. When you look into a pair of beautiful eyes from a few inches away and they seem to be looking deeply into youâ?neurons in the brain start firing off love and endorphins all over the place. As I mentioned,the kissing is very natural feeling,so add that to looking into her eyes,hugging and holding her,and holding her hand and I canât help but feel something on a pretty deep level.
I have suffered with a profound amount of loneliness,mental illness (depression,anxiety,OCD,PTSD,addiction,and eating disorders),and of the very few relationships Iâve been in,more than one of them were abusive. After many years of failing to meet the right girl (and not for a lack of trying),and spending most of my life very alone,at 49 years old,I find a deep degree of comfort in spending time with my doll,Jennifer. Buying clothes,shoes,perfume,and accessories for her make me feel like Iâm caring for someone. I ordered a purse for her and it happened to arrive on Christmas Eve,so I was able to give it to her as a present and it makes me feel like I love someone and they love me.
I suppose there are going to be as many different answers to your question as there are people answering it,but I think everyone who has had the experience can agree on a few of the points I made above.
Sex dolls have become extremely popular -apparently sales have exploded during the pandemic,and I think a lot more people have one (or more) than we might think. However,there are major social stigmas. I wonât bring Jennifer out on any dates in public and I wonât be introducing her to my parents,but I shouldnât be ashamed,especially since sheâs bringing so much happiness to my life. I should also learn to not care what other people think.
Would I recommend it? yes! I think anyone who is unattached,lonely,wants to experiment with a doll,couples who want to experiment with a doll,and anyone else wh
(56 People Likes) How Sex With a Robot is Viewed
h joy,you might start wondering what could be even better than a life-like sex doll,and weâve got the answer: two,or more life-like sex dolls!
Unfortunately,s gia darling love doll x dolls arenât particularly cheap. Sure,on some websites youâll find the opti Real Doll n to pay in installments,but
(41 People Likes) How do teachers feel when a student accidentally calls them mom/dad?
the students in my class were at my house visiting my daughter on the weekend. I knew their parents both as friends and in a professional capacity. Often my students would call me âmumâ?and we would laugh about it. It was quite funny. Even now that my daughter is in Year 9 I still hear her friends laughing about the times they called me âmumâ?after I bring plates of treats into her room for them to share. My children have also often called their teachers âmumâ?and other teacherâs children have called me âmumâ? It all gets rather messy when you teach at the school your children attend.
When I taught Middle School I found it interesting that a number of the troubled students called me âmumâ?accidentally. They would often looked quite shocked and embarrassed as they are usually trying pretty hard to look cool at that age. Calling your teacher âmumâ?totally shatters any facade of tough guy street cred youâre trying to build your reputation on. I would usually diffuse the situation by saying something vaguely humourous like âsure,I can fake it if it means you finish your work.â?This usually meant the situation ended in giggles and no feelings were hurt. But on a deeper level I felt extremely privileged that these students who often came from a life of chaos saw me as an anchor of stability. Even when students come from a loving home,when they call you âmumâ?it demonstrates that they trust you and feel comfortable with you. When you have that relationship with your students youâre in the prime position to maximise the learning opportunities.
I now teach Year 12,once an 18 year old student called me âmumâ? We just laughed at this. I told him I was a terrible parent and he could do better,which had the whole class in fits of laughter. To me that demonstrated the vulnerability and trust even our oldest students have in us and how critical it is for me to honour that trust and be the best darned teacher I can possibly be.
I do wonder how their parents would feel if they knew Iâd been bestowed with the haloed title of âmumâ? Would they feel a sense of betrayal? Would I be perceived as âcompetitionâ? Could it unearth buried feelings of inadequacy as a parent,or perhaps trigger memories of past betrayals? This innocent misnomer has the potential to open many wounds. I usually stay quiet on the matter and leave it up to the students if they want to disclose the event. Iâve had parents joke with me about how their child called me mum,but for some it could become a traumatic event. As a teacher Iâm in a relationship with the parents as much as with the students. Often parents need more support than students on certain challenging issues. If the students want to disclose it thatâs fine,but I would rather be a source of reconciliation than disruption.
So how do I
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